By Franky J
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14 Jun, 2018
We are now in full throttle of summer. This is the time of the year when we want to go out, meet people and network, but the question is, when is it time to actually be quiet or talk?
I've been in the game of networking since I started blogging in 2009 so I have always put myself out there to go out and network and meet people. Every scenario is different with these types of outings. I'll go through a few different places you may go and how you should play the game.
Panelist Event
I think with this type of event you should come with possible questions to ask the panelist if they have a q&a apart of the panel. Most panelist events have a cocktail hour before and sometimes after. This is the time to get all the talking you need to do out, pass out a few business cards, so that during the panel, you are attentive, phone is on silent, brightness is down and you are ready to engage in what's going on in front of you in silence. I think it's totally unacceptable to be at a panelist event on your phone or having side conversations, this is when you excuse yourself and step out. You must keep others in mind that are there to really listen and engage in the panel.
Networking Event
This is an event where I think phones should be used at a minimum. You are clearly here to meet someone, be it for a collaboration, a job, or you are there because it's hard as hell to meet people where you are and this just made it a little easier. This is an event you should absolutely have at least 10 to 20 business cards to give out. Sometimes Instagram pages are appropriate to give out if it feels right to do so. This is also a time to really listen to others speak and not interrupt or try to talk over the other person. You are both there to network so hear the other person out. Depending on if this is more corporate or a little more casual, you can might be able to relax a little and have fun. A lot of after hours events, try to make you feel a little more comfortable. Most of these events have food and alcohol. I say to always know your limit with this type of event.
Pop Up Event
This event was created for you to have fun so have your phone out, snap as many pictures as you like. This is where you can wear that outfit you were trying to figure out an event for. Here is your chance! You should pass out business cards because you are all there because you must all have similar interests in whats going on. Most pop ups have music, food, and drinks. This event is where I think you can really let loose a little and enjoy yourself.
What to wear to these types of events?
I think it all depends on where this event is taking place and if it's a panel, who will be on the panel. Is this more of a corporate, fashion, or artsy type of event? This helps you to decide on what's best to wear. Why are you at the panel? Are you looking for a job, to collaborate, to represent your personal brand; the list goes on. I think these things help to know what to wear. I'll also include some images on what might be most appropriate.
Corporate Event Looks